As a recruitment specialist a lot has changed during my 25 years in the sector.
At the start, I used to experience something now referred as ‘microaggressions’, which could be verbal or physical, intentional or unintentional, but are mainly targeted towards minority groups.
It’s hard to believe, looking at me now, but I used to have a distinctive high top hair style when I was younger and people thought it was okay to pat my hair. I used to hate it inside but didn’t say anything because I didn’t want to be seen as complaining. At the time I would laugh it off, get my head down and focus on my career but I actually I regret not challenging it in an intelligent way.
Back then there weren’t many black people working in recruitment and, if I’m honest, I wasn’t really looking for them because I was just trying to build my career.
Subconsciously I must have been aware of it because all I remember feeling was that I had to work twice as hard as my peers around me to prove myself because I was black so that’s what I did.